My Quantum Leap: This is MY life, I am who I WANT to be

I had the most empowering experience this past week on a visit to Miraval, the most amazing resort + spa.  As much as I loved the world class facility, the meals, the spa services, the specialists and the amazing staff….the most exhilarating experience came from the The Quantum Leap.

Climbing a 25′ telephone pole and then standing and balancing on a 9″ circle plate.  And then jumping.  Not too easy and scary as hell, but I was up for it!

I had been told that this was a life changing experience and I should do it.  Being the evolved woman I am, and knowing that I grow from stepping into my fear, I signed up.

The following is what I penned right after my experience.  My thoughts were filled with lots of adrenaline and this is exactly how it came out (please excuse the short sentences!):

Wow. Power.  Fear.  Apprenhension.  Easy climb up.  Whoa, the top came quick.  Oh shit.

Look around.  Ask for help.  Trust my team down below.

 

At the top. How does this work.  Not safe.  Yes safe.  

Trust.  Figure it out.  One step at a time.  What feels right. There.

Use my own power.  Stand slow and tall.  Shaking.

Breathe.  Breathe deep.  Relaxing into my power.

 

Wow. Look at what I can see.  So many possibilities.  

Move around to see more.

Balance.  Brave. Powerful.  Strong.  

What a view. “I’m living an awesome and bodacious life,

I’m stepping out!”

 

 

Whoa!  Freedom.  Letting go.  

Trust.  Joy.  Exilaration.  Big ass rush.

I did it!

 

 

Do you have a challenge right in front of you?  Is fear holding you back from stepping into either a challenge or to live the life of your dreams?  Are you who you want to be?  Here are some Quantum Leap metaphor tips to get you past your fear:

1.      Acknowledge your fear and have the courage to step into it anyways.

2.      Trust that you will be divinely guided.

3.      Ask for help.

4.      Take one step at a time.

5.      Breath after each step.

6.      Trust.

7.      Own your power.

8.      Acknowledge yourself along your journey.

9.      See the possibilities.

10.   Trust.

11.   Embrace the freedom and joy.

This is your life, are you who you want to be?  I just have to close with this awesome video that sends me right back to my Quantum Leap and Miraval experience.  I hope it inspires you to be WHO YOU WANT TO BE!

 

Much love + light,

Dealing with Change… When it’s time to Surrender & Trust

Funny how life brings us change.  Sometimes we are prepared for it and sometimes we are not. When we are not prepared for it, we can feel the pain in the change.  However we can flow with the change and feel different as we move through it.

I have watched a few friends of mine recently deal with losing their homes or businesses due to the challenging economy.  They saw the change early on and tried many different avenues to keep what they have worked hard to build up for so many years.  They grieved the change during the process.  So when it was time to let go…..to surrender….to trust….they moved through the process with much more grace.  No kicking, screaming and blaming.  Sad feelings…yes…grief for the change…yes…but with the trust that they would be ok.

In your life, when do you know its time to surrender and not fight the change?  How can you trust that all will be well when it does not feel like it?  Here are a few tips to help you through times of change and uncertainty:

1. Be open to the change.  Stop trying to control the outcome.  Let go and allow the change.  The change may be needed and it is difficult for you to see that while you are in the midst of it.

2. Allow yourself to feel your feelings, grieve the change.  Feel the sadness, cry if it comes up.  When you let feelings out, you don’t need to repress them and hold them in your physical body.  Go through all stages of grief…its important for your future well being.

3. Accept the situation and yourself exactly where you are. Be in the present moment with your life.  Accept what is and move forward.  Don’t beat yourself up!

4. Surrender to your higher power. Challenging as this may seem, it is a key aspect in dealing with change to trust your higher power, however you define that.  God, Source, the Universe…what ever fits for you.

5. Visualize yourself after you have moved through the change. Picture yourself in your mind how you want to be after the change.  It will give you a goal to achieve of how you want your life to be.

6. Trust that all will be well. This is an activity of the heart and soul.  As you surrender to your higher power, know that there are sources taking care of you in your spiritual realm.

7. Consciously create positive thoughts, beliefs and actions about the change. Shift your cognitive processes to the positive and you will feel the difference.  When you feel the negativity creeping in, quickly change it and keep the positivity up!

8. Move with the ebb and flow of change with grace and ease. When you utilize these skills with any type of change, you move with the change like a wave.  You eliminate any struggle and find yourself in a more proactive, less reactive place in your life.

Learning to deal with change is a key tool in your own personal growth and evolvement. Understanding change and how to move through it can only improve the quality of your life.  We live in ever changing times now and these skills can assist you in your personal and professional life.  Remember them, practice them, and you can feel more peace and happiness as you embrace change!

Listen…Honor…Care…Trust…

It has been six weeks since I began teaching my Heartfelt Learning Workshops Series sessions and what a joy it has been to share with such wonderful people!  The words I have listed above are what I had the privilege to experience happening inside of each and every participant.  Experiencing the openness of everyone to learn and watch the group connect each time we met, has touched my heart.

As I was teaching the group how to live life from a more open hearted perspective, I watched their hearts expand within themselves and with each other.  They learned to listen to themselves differently and were much more aware and in tuned to listen to others.  They even shared how much more aware they were of others in their lives who don’t listen!  I loved when one participant was listening to a sharing of another, and then they reflected back what they heard in front of the group, and then watched the entire group engage deeply into the heart centered listening process!

We shared what an ideal scene of what a healthy and whole person looks like.  Loving and honoring one’s SELF are the steps to that picture of healthiness and wholeness.  Here are a few statements we shared:

A Healthy and Whole Person….

…..has healthy boundaries with others in their life.

…..can give and receive love.

…..has their own voice.

…..can say NO as a complete sentence.

…..is available to see the truth.

…..has positive loving self thoughts.

…..accepts responsibility for their own upset.

…..trusts their own judgment.

The learning process allowed each participant to evaluate their life and explore where their energy drainers and fuelers were, and to create some action steps to find a better balance and care for themselves.  They created positive and loving affirmations about themselves to continue to see the goodness and beauty inside and create a practice to keep affirming those messages.

The greatest gift that the group experienced was that they learned to trust themselves and each other.  They felt safe enough to share from their hearts about their opportunities for learning and celebrating their successes.  The ah ha moments became more and more profound at each session.  I loved the last session when one lovely woman shared the activities she had done for the prior two weeks, and it was actually part of the material I was about to teach!  She had done some self reflection and was open and honest enough to go inside and take a look at her own heart.  She got it before she ever learned it!

It has been a blessing for me to share the wisdom of my heart.  Allowing others to share and expand their hearts with me has been my greatest gift of this teaching experience.  Living life from a more heart centered perspective can allow for more peace, compassion, joy, happiness and love in your life.